If your parents react in an irrational, angry way, realize that there is not much you can do about it.
I don’t know why they have these racist feelings, but that is something they need to learn to get over – it’s not something you have any control over.
Commonly, "stares and unkind comments" were routinely identified, more often from strangers than from friends.
Their analysis initially examined the relationship in general, and then how romantic partners responded to stares and negative comments. Black and white interracial couples: Managing relational disapproval through facework. I just recently published a book "Freedom to Choose-Is Skin Color Really an Issue? I not only used my husband and my story but I interviewed ten couples from different parts of the US to learn about their experiences as interracial couples and their children's experiences as bi-racial.
I don’t want that to happen, but I don’t want to have to choose between my happiness with this guy and my family. You have two options here: you can date this guy in secret, or you can be honest with your family. Dating in secret is really difficult and emotionally exhausting.